Do you agree or disagree with this ?

“Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship”

Humans need to have any kind of relationship to be called as a human, and in any relationship, people limit showing every part of their privacy. Why? Humans have faults with them and they think if they show their faults, the relationship will break. So, what is the best way? Do we tell the truth or not?

           When we always tell truth, we don’t have any privacy left with us. This makes us to lose our identity. When we lose our identity, it is really hard to live as a good person, because everybody will think that I’m a hypocrite. Everybody knows what I will do next, so it will be hard for me to start something. Humans are cunning creatures whom use others for their own good. If they know every part of me, they will use my information to do bad things like stealing and selling me to kidnapper.    

           Also, not telling truth can be a good tactic when the person has bad personal background. Nobody will want to become friend with former gangster or former criminal. People will fear the person and never go close to the person because they think the person will do the same to them.

           We also need white lies. White lies are lies that are done to protect somebody from danger. We often times use white lies to protect friends, but you also can use it to make others feel good. Even though if you think the person is not good at English, if you encourage them and say “you are good”, they will feel good and will want to be friend with you. We also tell white lies to not insult somebody even thought you feel bad.

           Nowadays, number of incidents was caused by telling truth to others. Telling truth can be a good thing to strengthen the relationship, but if it is returned with cajolement, you will have trouble.